How do you get along with your siblings? How about other family members? Do you have an uncle you adore or an aunt you can’t stand to be around?
Family relationships can be tricky. Despite our common heritage, we often find ourselves at odds with one another. There are many things that can drive families apart – money, politics, religion, marriage, divorce, children – sometimes it’s as benign a factor as simply a geographical separation.
This is nothing new. Most of us have heard stories about family members that simply could not tolerate each other. In extreme cases, such as the Civil War that sometimes pitted brother against brother, it can poison generations of a family, but more frequently, the warring parties eventually come to some sort of truce.
Although these tales often add spice to our family histories, the principals involved more than likely suffered through their own personal anguish and heartbreak. In these changing times, many of the pressures that can drive a wedge in family relationships may seem to be amplified and omnipresent. It would be prudent to resist the temptation to sign on to any of these destructive forces.
In our families, there should be more that unites us than divides us and that unity of support is something we can all use today and something that future generations can look back upon with pride.
Writing prompt for the day: Identify strained relationships in your family and try to find a common ground that will help heal them.
Author Larry Lehmer's book about Dick Clark and American Bandstand -- Bandstandland: How Dancing Teenagers Took Over America and Dick Clark Took Over Rock & Roll --is available from Sunbury Press. His book about the last tour of Buddy Holly, the Big Bopper and Ritchie Valens -- The Day the Music Died: The Last Tour of Buddy Holly, the Big Bopper and Ritchie Valens -- is available at Amazon.
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